Connection Before Correction
Make eye contact, get down on their level, and connect first.
Before redirecting behavior, pause and offer a moment of connection—soft eye contact, a gentle tone, or even a quick hug. When children feel seen and understood, they are far more ready to listen and follow guidance.
This goes both ways—just like adults appreciate eye contact, we can encourage children to look toward someone’s eyes or face when they’re speaking. It helps everyone feel heard and valued.
In college, I had the opportunity to work at the University of Arkansas’s childcare center. It was there that I truly learned the importance of getting on a child’s level. For me, it has always been about respect—showing children that their voice matters as much as mine.
When I kneel, make eye contact, and truly listen, I notice their entire posture soften. They feel safe, understood, and more willing to share what’s on their hearts.
One of my favorite ways to connect is by asking children to help me “find my nose” or by asking what color my eyes are. It seems so simple, but the magic happens when they ask me the same question back. In those moments, I know they feel seen, valued, and confident enough to engage—because connection has already been built. At Creekside, we believe respect, relationship, and trust begin at eye level.
Building Update
Construction is officially underway! Digging and filling are complete, and the dirt work is officially done. We’re excited to see things take shape and love watching the blueprints come to life.
Events coming up
March 4th, 2026- Olive Coffee Co. The village at Heritage Location 7309 Chad Colley Blvd, Barling, AR 72923.
Quote
Eye contact tells a child, ‘You matter. I see you.’”
— Dr. Becky Bailey
